28.3.10

How to Lose Weight Naturally, part 1



Are you overweight?



Have you failed to achieve the healthy, permanent weight you desire?

Have you tried but still can't lose those extra 10, 15, ...30 pounds (or more) no matter what you do?


If you answered "yes" to any or all of these questions, there may be a natural solution for you.



The Key to Losing Weight Naturally and Permanently

I have discovered that the key for individuals who have achieved healthy, successful, and permanent weight loss naturally is making both inner and outer changes.

In this article and my next one (part 2), I will reveal the most effective and powerful ways that I have found for healthy, natural, and permanent weight loss, working in harmony with your mind, body, and spirit.



This article will focus on the inner (i.e., mental, emotional, and spiritual) changes.



The Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Guidelines for Losing Weight Naturally:


- Forgive yourself.


In my healing work, I have observed that one of the most powerful and effective ways to clear mental, emotional, and even subsconscious issues related to weight, eating, food, or anything else is through forgiveness. And, the place to start is by forgiving yourself.


- Forgive others.


When we are not willing to forgive others, we are the ones hurt by this unwillingness, not the object of our grievance or resentment. By not forgiving others, it is like deciding to carry around an extra 25 pounds of "trapped," negative energy. This excess energy will only slow you down and if you continue to carry it around with you, your mind and body could be adversely impacted with excess physical weight and other health challenges.

The good news is that there is a way to resolve all of this easily: forgive others (yes, even forgive your family) and be free.


- Forgive the mental causes for excess weight and fat.


In the book Heal Your Body, Louise Hay shares the mental causes for excess weight and fat including:


  • Oversensitivity.
  • Fear and a need for protection.
  • Running away from feelings.
  • Insecurity.
  • Self-rejection, lack of self-acceptance.
  • Hidden anger.
  • Resistance to forgive.
  • Anger at being denied love.
  • "Stubborn" anger at one or both parents.
  • Anger from childhood.
  • Anger and rage at the father.


The most powerful way to overcome these mental causes is through forgiveness (which activates the power of love) and a willingness to let them go.

Are you willing?


- Change your beliefs about weight, food, and your body.

In the book Healing and Recovery, Dr. David Hawkins relates how he permanently lost fifty pounds of excess weight only by changing his consciousness and beliefs.


"Give up trying will power, give up dieting, and give up resisting eating. Those methods usually do not work; they make us miserable, and we frequently end up the same as we were anyway. The first thing to do is to begin to cancel some beliefs about diets and food that have contributed to our problem." - David Hawkins, M.D., Ph.D.


Examples of these limiting beliefs include:

- "Being overweight runs in my family -- it's in my genes."

- "It's due to my thyroid."
- "I've been overweight since I was a child, so I have too many fat cells."

So, how do we change these beliefs?

In the article "Afformations: The Key That Unlocks 'The Secret,'" Noah St. John offers a powerful tool for changing beliefs that he calls "afformations," an alternative to affirmations, which he says don't work because they are trying to convince us of something we don't believe.

An afformation is different than an affirmation because it asks a question instead of making a statement. Noah found that a question will "trigger" the mind to immediately begin searching for the answer and subsequent proof or evidence to support this answer.


He shares the story about one of his students who had amazing results by simply repeating throughout the day this afformation: "Why do I lose weight so easily?"


She lost 20 pounds in 60 days without stress or dieting.


Now, how cool is that?


In part 2, I offer physical guidelines for healthy, permanent weight loss naturally.



    Disclaimer: Please keep in mind that I am not a medical doctor or health professional. I am a holistic healer who has successfully worked with hundreds of clients from all over the world for over fifteen years. The purpose of this article is to share my findings and is intended as educational information only. It is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. You are 100% responsible for what you do (or don't do) with it. Just like all of the other areas of your life. ; )


    10.3.10

    Book review: "The Shift" by Dr. Wayne Dyer



    Do you believe any of the following:

    "Who I am is what I have"

    "Who I am is what I do"

    "Who I am is what others think of me"

    "I am separate from everyone else"

    "I am separate from what's missing in my life"

    "I am separate from God"


    If you replied "yes" and you do believe any of these statements, Dr. Wayne Dyer, says that you have fallen for what he calls one of "the six lies that the ego (our false self) want us to believe."

    In his latest book, The Shift, Dr. Dyer explores the process of moving away from an aimless life, directed by our ego and its lies, to one filled with meaning and purpose.

    As he explains, "The shift begins in the process of halting the momentum and self-importance of the ego. This doesn't mean we lose our drive; rather, it signifies that our drive is realigned with a life based on experiencing meaning and feeling purposeful."

    He points out that, unfortunately, many people reach the end of their life without ever making this "u-turn" from ambition to meaning.

    So, what exactly does this shift look like?


    Characteristics of The Shift


    According to studies, Dr. Dyer says that the top values for men and women, before and after making a shift in the direction and motivation of their lives, are as follows:

    For men...

    Before making the shift, the top values for men are:
    • wealth
    • adventure
    • achievement
    • pleasure
    • being respected
    After the shift, these top values changed to:
    • spirituality
    • personal peace
    • family
    • God's will
    • honesty
    For women...

    Before making the shift, the top values for women are:
    • family
    • independence
    • career
    • fitting in
    • attractiveness
    After the shift, these top values changed to:
    • personal growth
    • self-esteem
    • spirituality
    • happiness
    • generosity

    Making The Shift

    What causes these values to change?

    How do you make this shift from ambition to meaning?

    Why would you?

    Dr. Dyer explains that often it is some type of fall or downward turn in one or more areas of our life (incl. health, finances, relationships, business, etc.) that causes us to change the direction of our lives.

    "As with anything new, shifting from the morning of life into the afternoon and then evening will produce some surprising situations. This new direction, From Ambition To Meaning, is often accompanied by an unexpected event."

    However, he does reassure us that "every fall has within it the potential to move us to a higher place."

    What might this higher place look like?

    Some possibilities include:
    • Shifting our focus from external power to personal empowerment.
    • Seeing ourselves as connected to everyone.
    • Shifting our motivation from external achievement, performance, and aquisitions to ethics, serenity, and quality of life.
    • Shifting to the possibility, even the expectation, of miracles being a natural part of life.
    • Pursuing a meditation practice.
    • Choosing to live in harmony with nature, rather than trying to exert influence and power over it.
    • Becoming less judgmental, and more understanding and forgiving.
    Once you do make the shift, Dr. Dyer promises the "manifestation of miracles and (a) newly discovered synchronicity" for you and your life including:
    • The shift from entitlement to humility.
    • The shift from control to trust.
    • The shift from attachment to letting go.
    To learn more about making the shift from a life of ego and ambition to a more satisfying one of purpose and meaning, I recommend The Shift by Dr. Wayne Dyer.


    I would like to thank Hay House for sending me a free copy of "The Shift" to review. I am always happy to share things of value with the readers of this ZenChill Power Tools Blog.